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Friday, December 23, 2005

Making His-Story

England's first gay civil partnership ceremonies took place throughout the country today. A total of 687 couples got hitched, among them Sir Elton John and his partner David Furnish.

As for civil partnerships... I'm still not quite sure how I feel about them. It's certainly a big step forward - gay couples now get all the legal rights and financial benefits that heterosexuals enjoy with marriage. That has to be a good thing.

Most importantly, it's recognition. Instead of 'sick' or 'unnatural' or plain 'wrong', it's acknowledging that when two men or two women choose to spend the rest of their lives together, it just might possibly be 'love'. You know, like what straight people have, only without the risk of babies.

As Justin Ryan and Colin McAllister (C-list celebrities in a relationship of two decades) put it, "A greater show of commitment is being with someone for 20 years... we don't need a ring to prove it."

Furthermore - and this is me playing devil's advocate - should the worst happen and you go your separate ways, it makes things even messier. A breakup is painful enough without the added burden of having to legally disengage yourself from your partner.

Again, maybe that's just me being a cynical bitch, eh?

Today's not the day for such talk.

3 Comments:

At December 22, 2005 10:05 PM , Blogger Apoorv Gawde said...

Are you saying you do not believe in the institution of marriage??

 
At December 22, 2005 10:56 PM , Blogger Love you longtime! said...

yes, it's quite a big step for gay people... And hey u finally in agra? Goooood!

 
At December 23, 2005 11:51 AM , Blogger Neha said...

of course i do. but at the same time i want to say that it is not all that necessary...but what certainly is...is commitment.
what is the point of wearing the ring and sleeping with someone else's partner??

 

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